Looking towards positivity

We sometimes talk about the ill that has been done to our mindsets with the advancement of time and  technology.But sometimes, while in a thinking process,I think about the super positive things that have been done to our minds by the changing mindsets of people.
We have come out of the age where we had to match our mindsets with that of 10-20 known houses of the society in which we lived.Dare we did anything different,there the eyes of those people would get raised.It almost showed that every society has a "preset book of do's and don'ts" and every house has to abide by that.
But now the story is changing and is changing for the better.People are now correctly using their basic human right to think and believe whatever they feel like.No one has to answer to any of its society members for its different point of view or for taking up a totally different career. In fact everyone around is thinking differently without any barriers,without any constraints.

And with the continuation of this we will get,in recent years,a diversified and respecting each other type society and I am totally looking forward to it!!!  

LYRICAL DIWALI

Diwali par khushiya manayea,
Dil kahi kho gya hai to use dhund layea.
Har saal paiso se manaya ye tyohar hai,
is baar uski jagah thoda dil aur thodi muskaan kaam me layea.
Zahreele patakho ki jagah deeyo ko jalayea,
rangoli k rango me zara to kho jayea.
Roshni jagmagati ladiyo se farmayea,
fir unge dekh thoda muskurayea.
Apko Diwali mubarak ho mera ye paigam hai,
apke chehre par muskaan lana he mera kaam hai.


As it was Diwali festival yesterday in India so I just wrote my thoughts away in this poem.I hope you  liked it.
:)

Looking beyond human emotion of hatred

Whenever a person dies the mind ejects to one thing - the relationship shared by that person with the people who surrounded him,how he was with his loved ones and with his enemies.
When one day,abruptly that person will depart from the shell of the world and move to infinity then are the grudges,fights,hatred worth keeping?Whole our life we keep meeting people-few become best friends,few become "just friends",few become good friends but less talked to and there are few people who become enemies whom we keep hating to the last breath of our lives.
If we sincerely look at this,couldn't we have converted those enemies into peaceful fellow humans if not being friends with them?So that if we get to see them next time,by chance,then we could bid "hi-bye" to them instead of giving the "bad damn look" to them.
Though I know that love,affection,anger are the emotions that are embedded in human self but HATRED is one aspect that can be worked upon or rather must be worked upon.
When one day ,in a jiffy,a person leaves this world then why not bid peaceful 'hi-byes' to the "so called" enemies.
Recently,I lost one of my relatives and this prompted me to think about the relation he shared with his brother's sons-it was miserable.They used to hate each other like hell and always used to talk ill about each other.So the 3 thoughts or rather questions that crossed my mind after hearing about that person's death were-
1) What was the meaning of hating someone when it was not forever(because life has taken that hatred off now)?
2)Will the 'brother's sons attend the funeral or will they keep strong their hatred and not be a part?
3)What will be their mindset while attending it?That the person with whom they shared the cold vibe  is lying cold in front of them.
Thankfully, I got the answer to my second question-they did attend the funeral and actually did maximum work i.e all the work that is done before the cremation  takes place.
:)

Escapism

I know I am an escapist,
I believe I am an escapist.

I escape from people,situations and conditions
because I believe that I can't fulfill the surrounding's expectations.
From me people expect high,
but I always fall short on expectations,don't know why

Now I have found a new way of delight,
which my mind finds bright-
just escape when you feel you can't tackle,
escape and escape till you can't handle.

Though,I know this way life is surely not following the right path,
the path it has taken is gloomy and dark.

However now I think,
I need to come out of this shell and face the situation,
as keeping low self-esteem is no solution.
Its high time I should start expecting more from myself,
I think I should give another chance to my own self.

So what if my errors turn out to be the biggest errors of my life,
I would be content that I atleast tried.
Life doesn't give many chances to rectify,
So baby one should give it another try.

This escapism is craving for an end,I guess,
Hence,I should also expect nothing less.
Its for sure that life is much more than getting missed,
as its a spectacular gift!

:)

SEE YOU SOON

A "so called poem" dedicated to all those who are longing to see someone special!

                                                     

Wherever I go,I see you
Whatever I do,I see you
While watching T.V,I see you
While thinking about you,I see you

I guess,I see you
or is it my illusion that I see you?

Whatever it is,it doesn't matter,
the most important thing is-I see you

So I hope one fine day,I actually see you
touch you,feel you,after seeing you

Now I am ending this here,
with a dream of seeing you
So,see you soon!

Hi! I want to be your f.b friend

 
Whenever my mind reminds me of this topic I get a strange feeling."Isn't making people your Fb friend,whom you don't know well personally,strange?"I mean F.b is a place where people connect with those with whom they have talked to and have a good rapo with.But accepting a request from a person whom you once or twice saw in school,college or in office is a bit weired.You don't know anything or very little about that person and you share with him/her the very "you" side of yours-photos,thoughts,feelings etc.A few photos that you basically want to share only with very good friends,on f.b, end up getting shared with those people in your friend list"whom you just once saw".

The lives are moving from private to public.The ideom"my life is an open book" is getting real day by day.I have quite a good amount of friends who practice this.I have asked each one of them this question-'don't you find it uncomfortable?' And the answer I receive is-ITS OK.
I too keep becoming of such friend requests time and again. A person sent me a friend request,who was in common to one of my very good friends.When I asked that friend of mine,just casually, that I have received such person's request,so who is he?My friend took 2 min. to recall who the person is in her list by this name and then replied"oh this,yes,this person was,I guess,in my college and as we had the college in common so I accepted the request so that the person doesn't feel bad but I have never talked to him yaar".I was totally shocked to hear this that I shot back"you don't even know him and you are saying he might feel bad if you reject his request???""Your reply is like as if when you walk on road you say Hello to every one who passes by you so that that person doesn't feel bad".
Though I know and believe that everyone has a right to make his her own decision but what I don't like is people are actually not following themselves,they are following others.I mean its not their heart/mind which is OK with accepting such requests but its the trend that is making them do so.Because their friends and cousins accept such requests so they also think that"its ok".
As we all know its a fast paced life and we don't get to talk/meet/greet our near and dear friends very oftenly so why make unknown friends?Why not keep our"dear"ones "near"?Because just saying "hi-hello" neither makes a person your friend  and nor this friendship defines the true meaning of "friend".Therefore ,such people remain only your F.B FRIENDS ,they never become your FRIENDS.
:)

What is your status!!

Now-a-days a new fight has come up amongst the youth-the status fight.Whether a person is single or in a relationship.There are now so many pages on facebook,texts on phones,facebook status' just describing the merits of every status.Every person is trying to give explaination on his/her status i.e if a person is single then why it is good being single and if a person is in a relationship then he/she tries to give his/her own explaination to why it is good being in a relationship.
Now -a-days when we meet  a new person ,even after meeting that person3rd-4th time,the obvious question has become-are you single or you have a b.f/g.f and when a person tells about his/her status then their obvious explainations start-justifying their present situation and why they are happy with it.They start with"Look I am single because......."I am not able to understand why is the need to JUSTIFY???Because at the end everything exists in phases..IF a person is single at that time then it doesn't mean the person wouldn't get into the relationship...he/she would obviously  get into a relation as soon as that person finds the true love.
So guys donot justify your Status!!
Keep smiling:-)

Waiting for my destiny to get me wet soon..seems monsoon wants me to get drenched in its love but perhaps my destiny doesn't because whenever it rains,I am at home,in my room-praising the love that rain drops share with trees & leaves,mankind and earth by falling on them.
It is not that I can't go out to feel that love but it is a human psycology,a person is only afraid of getting wet until one gets few drops of water on its body.
So I am waiting for the situation when I am out,right below the rain drops to easily fall on me....:-)